I am starting to realize people can have a limited scope or understanding of abuse. The average person thinks it is limited to childhood trauma or domestic violence. Persons can also be abusers in friendships. They think because we are Christians forgiveness is unconditional. They will down play their behavior but hold other to the fire if they even preceive they've been wronged. Forgiveness doesn't mean you throw away your right to protect yourself from being abused. Forgive and shift not allowing the abuse within your personal space and still being cordial, respectful and prayfull. Otherwise you may risk becoming resentful, hateful and vengeful toward the person . God is never in those feelings or actions.
FG, BG , KG, and AG